Monday, December 14, 2009

"So... I'm sitting in a coffee shop..."

... and these two neat little kids... a boy, maybe 5...  and a little girl, maybe 3 1/2... walk past me going to the cookie counter... and I smile as I watch them pass by... because it doesn't seen THAT long ago since Girl and Boy RedShoes were that size... it's so cute... the little boy has his sister by the hand and they are picking out the cookies they want... I turn and look at their Mom... who is looking at me, and I say... "Your children are adorable... my 'babies' are much older... and watching your children remind me of similar times I had with them... 

... And she replies with, "You have children that old? You sure are attractive!!"

It's not THAT often that I am speechless... but it was another one of those moments... of... "I don't get it..."  Maybe I have some self esteem issues I need to work on... later, when she and her children left, she smiled and winked at me...   I need to start believing more in me...

4 comments:

  1. Good GOD man!


    you need to get over this hump!

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  2. Act upon these cues, and find a new lover.

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  3. You need a wing person to stump on your foot! But let me suggest you NOT surround yourself with women because then other women will not approach!

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  4. Hi there, Jen... just many many years of negative reinforcement... trust me, I am working on it... just like what Secretia is recommending...

    As always, Bathwater... you are right about who we surround ourselves with...

    Trust me... I am working on it...

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