As I've aged, I've shifted from being 'religious' to being more 'spiritual'...
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religious [rɪˈlɪdʒəs]
adj
1. of, relating to, or concerned with religion
2.
a. pious; devout; godly
b. (as collective noun; preceded by the) the religious
3. appropriate to or in accordance with the principles of a religion
4. scrupulous, exact, or conscientious
5. (Christianity / Ecclesiastical Terms) Christianity of or relating to a way of life dedicated to religion by the vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience, and defined by a monastic rule
n
(Christianity / Ecclesiastical Terms) Christianity a member of an order or congregation living by such a rule; a monk, friar, or nun
religiously adv
religiousness n
Collins English Dictionary – Complete and Unabridged © HarperCollins Publishers 1991, 1994, 1998, 2000, 2003
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adj.
1. Of, relating to, consisting of, or having the nature of spirit; not tangible or material. See Synonyms atimmaterial.
2. Of, concerned with, or affecting the soul.
3. Of, from, or relating to God; deific.
4. Of or belonging to a church or religion; sacred.
5. Relating to or having the nature of spirits or a spirit; supernatural.
n.
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a. A religious folk song of African-American origin.
b. A work composed in imitation of such a song.
2. Religious, spiritual, or ecclesiastical matters. Often used in the plural.
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I'm not sure that the definitions helped a great deal... afterall, I do believe it's what one feels inside and how one acts that goes greatly toward defining who and what that person is...
I guess when I claim to be 'Spiritual' and not 'Religious,' I am making the distinction about not being all caught up in the finer details of what makes one a Baptist... or a Methodist... or any of the other World's religions...
I do belive in a higher power... I do believe in God... but from that point on, I start to struggle a bit...
I have found that over time, as I read and learn more about different theologies, I've found myself 'cutting-and-pasting' from them and creating my own 'Shoesology.'
I've read several of Gary Zukav's books... he is best known for 'The Seat Of The Soul'...
It's been a while since I have read this book, and I may need to go back and re-read... a great deal of what he espouses in his writings seem to greatly mirror Hinduism... especially from the concept of reincarnation. My buddy, KP, Hindu and Dot-Indian, tells me that Hindus believe that one can be reincarnated forward or backward... so if in this life time as a human, there is a life lesson that you can learn better as a dog, a cat, or a rat, or a whatever, that is what happens... Zukav is of the opinion that everyone is reincarnated forward. Of course, there is no evidence/proof that any of this happens. I think having a belief system... some kind of tenet... just helps one adjust as he/she moves through Life.
Zukav and the Hindus agree that one lives and is reborn over and over until something akin to the 'perfect Life' is attained. From that point, they then ascend to Nirvara or some other Heavenly Bliss... of course, if that is true, then what happens once we reach that level?
I have been visited in dreams by my friend, Barry, and my former mother-in-law. I say visited, because in those dreams, each said or did something to address something in our lives/relationships that had not been finished. I believe that my Dad intervened the night that I was prepared to take my Life... now on that night, Dad didn't appear in any form or fashion, but instead, in a comment that kept playing over and over in my head.
My son, BoyShoes insists that my Mom... his grandmother, was sitting at the foot of his bed reading him a story... and that when he sat up in bed, she put her finger to her nose to have him remain silent.
Who really knows, Tee... what is out there? Scientists are saying that Outer Space is the last great frontier, but I'm just not sure. Of course, I'm not in any kind of hurry to make that journey!!
~shoes~
"Spirituality" to me is the equal partner to "religion"... I guess I could call it "gobblinigion"? LOL If you took your two definitions - picked out the relevant information - rolled 'em together like a pork egg roll - then you'd have my beliefs. There are SO many big and little and mid-size daily miracles. I believe it's not "where" you worship, but rather, "how" you worship. Somebody can go to church all day - every day - and not be religious or spiritual... it's how one walks through life - actions, deeds... thoughts, heart - soul. As for after life - I believe that God works in mysterious ways. Sometimes we get to write "the end" in our book... sometimes we get to leave it a cliff-hanger... maybe sometimes God's not so much in to cliff hangers.
ReplyDeleteSo... now... what about after birth? just wonderin'...
xoxoxoxoxo
yours truly, gobbles
(when did i get so long-winded? geesh)
I'm glad you posted this. This subject has always perplexed me and I guess it always will.
ReplyDeleteWhat is the right thing to believe? What is the truth?
oh, man, this is a tough one for me. i'm basically atheistic at this point in my life, but oddly enough, it's my legal training - logic above all - that makes me hold back from going 100% atheist. it's being risk-averse, i think. i just don't know enough to know what's out there or what isn't.
ReplyDeletei do know this, though: the interventionist deity of the christian faith is not at all something i accept. i call it the "sky-daddy" dream, and it causes a lot of trouble. i am basically in line with bill maher's speech at the end of "religulous" on this.
as far as my daily life, and how i get through my day, i follow one quote: "god is the vice of the people. i believe in me." - lee "scratch" perry
I believe in a "higher power" type thing(?) I dunno, I guess if the apocalypse starts happening I might full out become a believer. But I doubt thats gonna happen anyway. See I'm all sortsa wishy washy on the subject.
ReplyDeleteI believe in Love. Hows that?
I'm on the spiritual side myself, believing that there is something, whatever it is, larger than myself...
ReplyDeleteI'm not a big fan of organized religion. It amazes me what atrocities people do in the name of whatever God they pray to.
Great post.
Very food for thought. I'll be thinking about this all weekend. Probably even more than that!!!
I grew up catholic. Nuff said.
ReplyDeleteThis is one of those topics that can engender a lot of strong opinions. However, the real deal is that we won't really know until we die. I think that is sort of the point. If we were totally tuned into the whole thing it would change our lives and our choices. I think this life is supposed to be hard. We are here to spiritually mature. I am so glad you that didn't kill yourself. I think everyone thinks about it at one time or another, but life always does get better. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. Yes, it is complicated.
ReplyDeleteWell..I learned I must be spiritual I too struggle with giving what I believe a lable. you and I share many beliefs and experiences. My Father has visited me on several occasions since his death and I know that scares some people away but I know it, not believe it.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I love reading something real and meaningful that makes you stop and think about how you feel and believe, not that a good joke, song or video isn't good too.
thanks for posting this, and yes, it is complicated ...that is kind of the point. I'm glad you didn't DO it too. I would have missed meeting you and reading your words.
Carol-the gardener
I'm Spiritual. Organized religion usually uses some form of fear to keep everyone in line...there is no angry God. Anger isn't part of him.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I love to read, so I'll be checking that book out.
Without faith in something, the soul rots.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with your way of thinking.
Lol at the picture of the ark.
As a "practicing" Catholic.. and I don't mean I am trying to get it right.. I mean that I do attend mass and believe in the teachings.. I know that, no matter what I think, it doesn't or shouldn't matter to anyone else.
ReplyDeleteEach of us must follow their own heart in the matter of God and religion but, I saw.. Err on the side of caution. If there is a God.. better to not piss him off ;)
Great post Shoes!
Well as a believer, I too struggle with a mix of ideas. But I do believe we have ties with our loved ones and family...that remain even when some are on this world, and some have died and are in another world. And I think the purpose some of us are here for, may not be fulfilled until after death. Your poignant writing is always so relative.
ReplyDeleteI have struggled very hard with the religion vs. spirituality conundrum...Spirituality wins. This is why -
ReplyDeletehttp://open.salon.com/blog/linnnn/2010/09/01/a_cradle_catholics_priests