The comments that some of you left for me regarding the harassment/stalking by married woman... encouraged me to talk to her husband... or to call the police...
A few months ago, I arrived at work one morning... parked in the Faculty Parking area for my building... and there was a University Police Woman writing a ticket for someone who was parked in the wrong area...
She should have looked like this...
But she didn't...
But she was sporting some cool looking handcuffs
on her utility belt that looked just like...
THESE!!!!!
I mean... JUST like them... I wasn't aware that they
made police issue handcuffs in Pink...
I thought about asking her if she grabbed the wrong set before she left the house that morning... or... maybe asking her if her signifcant other was still 'cuffed' to the bed at home.. I wonder if they make pink pistols??
I was curious if someone made a vibrator that looked like a pink pistol... I looked... trust me, I looked... I really really looked... Hmmmm... might require some marketing research...
I'm thinking that this woman would have to do a better job of concealing her 'weapon'... but I'm just not THAT sure where she would hide it...
Personally, she could give me a cavity search anytime she wanted....
As long as she reciprocated...
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"Senorita" has a hilarious post HERE ... in the comment section, "Darn Girl" goes into a discourse on 'ball sucking'... which made me think of
THIS!!!!
I miss Chef... I hate that he joined that strange Society... and got killed... and then just a year or so later, Issac Hayes, who supplied the voice for the character of 'Chef'... died...
What a wonderful musician he was...
Anyhoo...
Things are back to some level of normal here at the "Shoes" household...
~shoes~
Glad to hear that you're feeling brighter.
ReplyDeleteThere's a little something for you over at my blog. http://tuppennytales.blogspot.com/2010/04/sunshine-bloggers.html
Have a lovely weekend.
T
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ReplyDeleteIt is good to know you are feeling better.
ReplyDeleteHowever, silence does not necessarilly solve a problem. In order for it to be stalking, does a person not have to tell the other person to fuck off? I mean, silence sometimes only makes the opposite thing happen.
I had a guy once who kept bugging me at work and I had to take him to the side and tell him I felt uncomfortable.
However, the point is, I did tell him how I felt. After that, the problem was resolved.
So, my only question to you is if you are being silent and creating some of the drama with the stalker yourself??? Not that you should be stalked if you are. I'm just saying...
I don't mean to sound like a brat, but I've been falsely accused of stalking before.
I went to someone to seek answers which they had.
They ignored me thinking this would solve the problem. The honest truth is I wanted and still want closure and I don't give a damn how quiet they want to be to get rid of me. One day I will get that closure.
In fact, they can call the police on me if they want to and I will gladly provide two cell phones and two computers which got hacked which this person has denied knowing anything about, but I know for a fact they are lying because the proof is on the hardware of the computer. lol.
Ultimately, I realize I must let these things go. However, I also realize stalking is a two way street.
I used to not think the rapist and the person being raped were alike.
The sad truth is though every person raped attracts the rapist just like every person mugged attracts the person who mugs them.
Victims give off a scent. Call me crazy, but it is the truth.
If you want to stop being victimized, the only answer is to stop the victim vibes which exist inside of you.
Before people start criticizing me, I would like to offer a bit of research on what I am talking about. Yes, scientists are already doing research on the brain providing proof on everything I just discussed here.
Links are provided below for those who are interested to inquire further:
"People tend to show the same brain patterns for similar thoughts, he added."~ http://www.computerworld.com/s/article/9141180/Intel_Chips_in_brains_will_control_computers_by_2020
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091120000140.htm
http://www.mindreality.com/one-persons-brain-waves-can-actually-synchronize
uhhh yeah well....I am just glad you regained your moxie - now go kick some ass!!!
ReplyDeleteKiss Kiss Shoes <3
@ Tuppence... hey you!! Thank you SO much for that honor... I will have to think of whether or not I KNOW that many people...LOL But I so appreciate that!!!
ReplyDelete@ Shelly... Thank you for all of your thoughts... they are ALL very valid... but I haven't remained quiet.... in her email to me, she said...
"You have made it very clear that you want
nothing to do with me and that's understood. You have my apology."
So she knows I have told her that I can't be her lover... etc., she is having trouble in her marriage... to be perfectly honest, I am not sure her husband shrares the same sense of 'problems' as she does... if that makes any sense...
But you are right... she has told me that she just KNOWS I am the cure for her problems... and I have assured her that I am NOT the cure for her problems... I haven't looked at the posted links you supplied, but I will... I like the way you think and analyze things... thank you so much...
@Southern Girl.. I am trying!!! How are YOU?
~shoes~
I'm glad to hear you're feeling better. :)
ReplyDeleteAnniversaries of any kind can be tough. :(
Btw...I had an online stalker not too long ago.
Without going into great detail about the situation, I finally handled it this way:
I told him that if he contacted me again in ANY way I would notify his employer that he was contacting me during company time on company equipment. Yes, he'd made the mistake of telling me where he worked.
I also told him that I would tell his wife. Yep, he'd made the mistake of telling me where she worked as well.
I told him I was doing this on the advice of an attorney (which wasn't entirely true, but this guy was a NUT!)
I never heard from him again. Thank God!
Good luck with this situation.