"When John Henry was a baby..."
I seem to be stuck in a rut where I am thinking back to when I was a little pair of ~shoes~... and I do mean little!!
Way back once upon a time, my Dad had this mountain of a black man that worked for him... I would like to say that he looked like that fellow in the statue above, but the fact of the matter is that he was even more built! I remember him with huge shoulders and arms... and a great chest, but with a smaller waist. Probably the kind of physique that most body builders would die for.
I can't remember too much of what I knew about him just simply due to the time that has slipped away... but his Momma named him 'Pretty'... and his last name was Bell...
Pretty Bell...
I would love to imagine that his Mom thought he was the prettiest baby she had ever seen. Maybe it was more like the song, "Boy Named Sue"... where maybe Mom thought he needed a name that would cause him to have to toughen up and take care of himself... defend himself.
Pretty Bell was a gentle giant.
I remember one day that a piece of equipment broke down... and Dad was fretting about how he was going to get it fixed... Pretty Bell told Dad that if the part was ordered, that he could repair it...
Dad ordered the part... the part arrived... Dad had Pretty Bell come into the office... Dad gave him the instructions... Pretty Bell looked at them... took the part and left the office. My Dad gave me this wide-eyed look and said...
"He can't read..."
Dad said that he held the papers upside down and looked over it... I guess too embarrassed to tell Dad that he couldn't read... poor fellow. Of course, after the work was completed, the machine ran like a sewing machine (why do we refer to well-running machines as running like sewing machines?)...
Some times flashes by.. and Pretty Bell has quit working for Dad to go to work for someone else. I don't remember the details of what happened or why... it just happened.
Another block of time passes, and Mom tells me that Pretty Bell died at his new work place. He had suffered a heat stroke... and he was gone.
There is an old cemetery that was old when Pretty Bell died and was buried in it. That part of town was referred to as 'The Brick Yard'... I can only imagine that there was a brick yard there...
There are songs about Brick Yard Blues and such... I wonder what the connotation is?
Anyway... Pretty Bell is buried in the Brick Yard Cemetery... no headstone... no nothing... no anything. Nothing to ever indicate that he lived... that he died... and that he had that WONDERFUL name... I have no idea where he is buried in that place. I've talked to black ministers... black funeral home owners... no one knows. My oldest sister says she knows, but... who really knows.
Brick Yard Cemetery
If you have read much of my Blog, you know I do dumb shit... that I am really soft-hearted and very sentimental. I'm going to find where he is... and place a headstone on his grave. If I can't find the grave, I will ask permission to place the stone in Memory of him...
There needs to be some memory of this fellow... that he was born... given a wonderful name... and died... and was loved by a little boy... and many many years later, is still remembered.
"...you still walk the furrowed fields of my mind
Faded shirt, your weathered brow
Your caloused hands upon the plow
I loved you then and I love you now..."
These lyrics from 'Reuben James' remind me of Pretty Bell...
I would love to have a dollar for every time that rascal has rambled through my memory...
~shoes~
I like that u are going to find his grave and put a headstone there.
ReplyDeleteWe go through life sometimes never knowing that we touched another's life even if we were only in their life for a brief moment.
Good morning... yes, many times we have no idea.
DeleteRe: Pretty Bell... it just seems like 'the thing to do'...
He was a good good man.
~shoes~
From what I Googled, brickyard cemetery is just another name for cemetery... Nowadays, cemeteries have paperwork of where each person is either encrypted or buried--kind of like a cemetery blueprint.. I knew you were a softie deep down.. Did your friend have family? or friends? maybe you can do a shout out on facebook- giving some info. on him?
ReplyDeletehey, maybe Brick yard refers to where the poor are buried or those that don't have family to deal w/a burial? When I think of a brick yard, it reminds me of a dry, not so pretty place...
ReplyDeleteGood morning, Chris... this is my interpretation of 'brickyard.' A place for those who haven't anyone... or anything.
DeleteI doubt that anyone outside of myself, my brothers and a sister, and now you all, have any idea this gentle man ever existed.
It's the least I can do for him.
~shoes~
This piece works so well because it has fired up ideas, thoughts, and questions among everyone who has read it so far. I can see you, a little blonde boy, looking up to this powerful yet gentle man who was successful in spite of not being able to read and mostly because he worked hard. Steinbeck crossed with Conroy once again...When you place that headstone, make sure you let us know and post a photo too. You've given Pretty Bell to a whole new universe of memory.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon, Linnnnnnnnnnnn...
DeleteI hope to get this tended to soon. In the event that I can not find his grave, I need to know the protocol for placing a memorial marker.
It's kind of like with my ancestors who have gone on, I always like to think that when their names are mentioned, that their spiritual energy senses it... knows it.
He was a gentle, gentle being.
~shoes~
That's beautiful, please do find him.
ReplyDeletestephanie
Good afternoon, Stephanie... I know the general area of where he is. I may never know exactly. I guess this is why the idea of being able to place a memorial stone is important to me...
DeleteThank you...
~shoes~
I hope you do find him and are able to place that headstone where it belongs. People come in and out of our lives and we never know what kind of impression we leave on them or they on us.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon, Yvonne... I will find him, or at least a place where I can put a headstone in his memory...Pretty Bell was a good guy. :o)
Delete~shoes~
What a poignant story. Reminds me of Michael Clarke Duncan who played the gentle giant in The Green Mile, who recently passed. Perhaps these gentle giants aren't long for this world because their hearts are too big. I hope you find him.
ReplyDeleteHi there, Simplicity... yes, Pretty Bell was that kind of fellow (Michael Clarke Duncan)... except with a smoother, gentle voice...
DeleteI will find him.
~shoes~
What a great post, Shoes. So thoughtful, well done.
ReplyDeleteI'm always amazed how some people come into our lives (even if it's for a mere moment) and how their impact has the ability to touch us for a lifetime. I believe there's a reason why certain people come into our lives....
Hi there, Princess... Yes, people do come into our lives for a reason... even here in our blogs.
DeletePeople do leave their impressions with us, don't they?
~shoes~
ahhhhhh what a great story Shoes! thank you for sharing. this is yet another reason why I love all things Shoes! promise me you'll never change. and update us when you find Pretty Bell's grave.
ReplyDeleteHey, Green Monkey!!
DeleteI will never change... I think all of the crap that goes on within me is SO ingrained in me.
When I find his grave site, I will post about it and will let you know.
I hope all is well with you, dear.
~shoes~
Beautiful post...very touching. I hope you're able to find and mark the grave. And as GM above says, please let us know.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon, Max... How goes it?
DeleteI would LOVE to find exactly where he is in the cemetery, but the more I talk to people, the more I am learning that people buried here were just at random... no real rhyme or reason to things.
How is the guitar playing coming along?
~shoes~
You made me cry again.
ReplyDeleteLovely story, Shoes. I really hope you post a story if/when you find his grave and a picture of the headstone when you have it made. You are a wonderful person. Truly.
Hi, Ms. Robin... thank you for your lovely words, however, I really don't mean to make anyone cry... it's just MY heart.
DeleteI will post when I finish this for Pretty Bell...
I trust all in well with you, dear.
~shoes~
What a wonderful story. Glad you are going to give him a memorial. Funny...when my sewing machine works well I say it is running like a Cadillac. (The old all-metal machines were smooth and quiet. I had my mom's 1940s Singer until just a few years ago but eventually couldn't get it repaired. I could see using that machine as a standard for things running well.)
ReplyDeleteHi there, Blissed... Good afternoon...
DeleteI wonder if anyone came to his funeral. I don't know that he had anybody. It may simply be that he was indeed laid out in a pine box and put into the ground.
My Mom's old sewing machine (and I have no idea what it was) ran great. When she would sew, it was music to my ears. I loved hearing it run.
Now that I think about it, I bet it was an old Singer. I wonder where it is today?
I hope all is well with you!
~shoes~
Pretty Bell lives on because you care to remember. I too grew up in a similar world and loved the men who worked for my grandfather. They were strong, kind, funny and brown skinned. Of course, everyone used the expletive N word but my grandfather stopped when as a child, I told him how much it hurt me to hear him say it. He loved me enough to understand my tender heart and he dropped the n word from his vocabulary. Those wonderful men who worked for him just became "the men" with no n word used to describe them. It was a small victory for me and I hope it brought some sense of dignity to those men who are all gone today. Good luck with finding the grave. You're a sweet soul to do so.
ReplyDeleteHi there, DixieBelle...
DeleteI never cared for the use of that word, although I think the issue today is ridiculous... they call each other that word all day long, but then supposedly get upset and angry when someone else does?
I just don't/can't buy into that level of political correctness.
Those men from the era you discuss did earn their dignity and integrity.
I loved Pretty Bell... and still do! I will post the rest of this story when it is completed!
I hope all is well with you!!
~shoes~
Shoes,
ReplyDeleteThis is such a wonderful post and it brings me joy to know you care enough to find this person and leave his name in the book of life. You know this is very symbolic..maybe, this will give his soul rest in the upper world. Gee shoes this amazes me..truly a heart touching story. I am positive you will find the place or its close proximity. His spirit will lead you.
Hi there, Truedessa. I hope it elates his spirit so! I am sure that his Spirit will lead me in the right direction!
DeleteI think we are often lead by Spirits... don't you?
:o)
~shoes~
Hi Shoes,
DeleteHow is the search going? Yes, I believe spirits guide us everyday. How's work going you must be busy?. How the guitar playing going are you getting closer to that song?
Hey Shoes, I just wanted to let you know that I tagged you in the Thursday post. Hope I hit the barn if not the target...
ReplyDeleteShoes: We miss you. It's been a while.
ReplyDeleteShoes
ReplyDeleteWhere have you been? You are too quiet come and say hello I am worried about you.